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How I got Started Looking for Men

My name is Amy and I was 29 when my marriage fell apart. It was an old story - too young, too horny and too headstrong.

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We thought we were in love when really it was just a bad case of teenage lust. We got married too young, before either of us even knew what kind of life we wanted. Over the years, though, one thing became very clear: I came to realize we wanted to go in two entirely different directions in the bedroom. When it comes to sex, I've always been adventurous, but I could only go so far married to a man who insisted on doing it the same way every week, no more than twice a week. It included about 30 seconds of foreplay, (for me that is, while plenty of oral for him,) and then straight sex in the missionary position. By the end of the marriage, I was raring to get out there and explore my sexuality but I was left with a problem. I didn't have a clue how to begin.

The trouble with bars

The first thing I tried was what everybody tries - going out to bars, lounges and dance clubs. Sometimes I went with some other women looking for men and sometimes I'd go cruising alone. The result was pretty much the same. I'd end up with a bloke who looked good but was either too drunk to cop a root or a dud in the sack if he could. Women looking for men have to be a little more choosy - let's face it, not every single guy is really worth the effort when it comes to sex. No matter how I tried, I couldn't seem to get much past the whole boring vanilla sex scene. One night when I was at my favourite club, a girl next to me at the bar started talking. We were both complaining about the same thing but then she told me she was trying out an online sex dating site. She had put up her free profile that day on different Australian dating apps and was going to let me watch while she checked out her first responses on her tablet.

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We both gasped out loud when she opened up her message box. There were dozens of replies! Most of them had pictures and descriptions - she had so many guys wanting to give her what she asked for that we spent the whole night drinking champagne and checking them out. Needless to say, the very next day I checked it out myself and entered my own profile. The site is very discrete and I felt safe so I was very up front. I debated how I would word it but this is what I said: "30-year old straight female factory worker looking for sexual adventure... Any takers? Message me back and let me know what you'd like to do to me. Must be experienced!" I couldn't believe it! Within minutes I was getting replies from all sorts of blokes. The messages alone were making me wet! Hello love... what would I like to do to you? I'd love to spread your legs and lick you until you shake.. I'd bend you over my knee and spank you... I'd love to give your lovely bum a try...do you like it that way?

Fulfilling my fantasies

That last one was cute but it really got to me too! It's true - I'd been dreaming what anal sex would be like for a long time. Sure, I'd used dildos and seen porn flicks but I knew that doing it with a real man would be way better than all of that. I wanted to make sure it was someone who knew what they were doing because I know it can hurt with the wrong approach. Looking online let me be choosy. Eventually, I found a few guys who looked great in pictures and seemed to be on the same wave length as me. I chatted online with each of them so I could be sure they were the real deal and that nothing came across as out of place. It felt great when I finally narrowed it down... to two of them! I couldn't decide, so I went with both (on different days of course!) Let me tell you, there is nothing better than to have your sexual fantasies fulfilled by someone who knows what they are doing! Both Ted and Dane made sure I had fun - and a huge orgasm! - with my anal sex initiation, so much fun that I couldn't wait to go back for seconds. I still can't decide whether I like Ted or Dane better but since neither of them cares about it, I guess I won't have to decide after all.

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