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Q:Should I Lose My Virginity to an Escort? I Can't Make Up My Mind

My name is Eric and I'm 22. I'm also a virgin. At this point, I feel like the only one of my friends (or people in my age group) who can claim this. I hear (and see) endless stories of hooking up with girls and having one night stands, but it has never happened for me.

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I'm average looking with a pretty good physique because I work out and play on my college's soccer team. Why am I a virgin? I guess at this point I just want a great first experience. I mean, I waited all this time, so why would I waste it at a party with a girl I hardly know? I'm not looking for a long-term relationship, so losing it to a serious girlfriend is out of the question.

I'm thinking about losing my virginity to an escort (or prostitute, if you will). This was actually suggested by my best friend, and after some thought, it doesn't seem like a bad idea! I'm intrigued by the thought of having GREAT sex with someone who knows what they're doing.

Is this a good idea? I honestly can't decide if I should do it or if I should hold out longer. However, I'd honestly like to go into the last year of college having had this life experience knocked out. I'm open to advice!


Losing Your Virginity to an Escort: The Good, The Bad, and the Questions to Ask Yourself

Hi, Eric! Welcome and thanks for your question, it's a good one. Today, it seems that more people than ever before have been saving their virginity for one reason or another. Congratulations on making it this far!

I know first hand that adult dating is quite easy these days, especially with the prevalence of dating apps and websites. However, determining whether or not to sleep with someone for your very first time is a big decision.

I can see why you'd want to sleep with an escort, as they tend to work hard to make sure their client is satisfied. To make this decision easier, let's consider the pros and cons. This is the best way to ensure you're making the choice best suited for you.

The Benefits of Losing Your Virginity to an Escort

There are many benefits of losing your virginity to a prostitute (or escort, if you prefer that word better). The first is the fact that they are doing a job, a job in which they are dedicated to satisfying you.

This means they will listen to your wants and needs to make the experience as mind-blowing as possible. The next benefit is the fact that most escorts are quite beautiful. You can even request someone with a certain look to ensure you're turned on and attracted to your date.

Another advantage to consider is the fact that it is just about NSA fun added to this experience, so you don't need to wine and dine her first.

Last but not least, don't forget that you don't have to be shy with an escort. It's their job to satisfy their client and they want you to have a good time.

The Drawbacks of Losing Your Virginity to an Escort

As with anything in life, there are drawbacks to this experience. The first is that you'll be spending a considerable amount of money, especially if you want a high quality escort. This can be financially straining for someone of your age who is still in college, although each situation varies.

Another drawback is the fact that, because it's your first time, you might be nervous! While escorts will do what they can to make you comfortable and get you hard, the situation may not go as you plan in your mind.

If you can't get hard or aren't feeling it, you may waste a lot of money on an experience that doesn't happen.

One of the last drawbacks to consider is the fact that you must seriously consider where you find the escort. You don't want to risk getting yourself into a sticky situation (and not in a good way) by not doing your research. Finding a quality escort who will be dedicated to a great experience may not be easy.

Ask Yourself a Few Questions

  • Can I afford it?
  • Am I sure I don't want to wait for a serious relationship?
  • Do I have a reputable referral?
  • Am I ready to lose my virginity?

Whether you want to lose your virginity to an escort because you are turned on by something unique, such as a latex fetish, or you just want GREAT sex guaranteed, be careful.

Consider the benefits, consider the drawbacks, and make the decision based on thought. Your first time having sex is one you'll remember forever, whether it's with a prostitute or a woman from your local pub.

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The route you go depends on your preferences and determination.

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