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The footjob is the way to more men's hearts than women think!

Yes, that's right. The sexual zeitgeist has moved on once again while you weren't looking and there is a new player in the garden of earthly delights. Don't get us wrong. Blowjobs are great. But enjoying one's sexuality to the fullest is primarily about the opportunity to explore it.

Man kissing lady's foot
The right footjob action can bring you to earth shattering orgasms.

And when it comes the expanding your sensual horizons the feet can be a great place to start! Sexual therapists and Yogis alike have known for sometime that there is more to feet than meets the eye. The human foot has more than 33 joints and a skillful foot massage is a highly under-rated form of foreplay that can set the stage for what's to come.

Most noteworthy of all how is the fact that the most common fetish this side of the hemisphere is, yep, you've guessed it, the foot fetish. Now are you starting to see why footjobs are such a big deal?!

If you're into it, best to get it right

Our aim today is to give you some practical advice that will help couples create some truly world class footjob action! As you may have guessed, footjobs are not a staple of everyone's sex life. Dipping a toe (sorry, couldn't help ourselves) into the world of foot fetishes can be intimidating and can result in some embarrassing situations that actually hurt a relationship rather than help it.

To help you avoid these pitfalls we've put together a brief guide on the main factors to get right in order to avoid disappointment and unnecessary awkwardness. Whether you are a woman hoping to give your feet-loving man the time of his life or a man looking for the right instructions to give to his tentative but open partner, look no further. Now: Pay attention cos the first one is a biggie!

Step 1: Keep 'em clean and sexy

On this strange planet of ours, you'll find some men and women for each kind of taste. From cuckolding to S and M, it takes a lot of different kinds of love to make a world! So, we are not saying that there a no men who fantasize about getting a foot job from a pair of uncleaned, unmanicured, and slightly odorous feet.

Woman's feet with panties on the feet
Footjobs are a big deal!

However, we would suggest that it is generally the case that the better they look and smell, the sexier the dude will find them. Therefore, a certain amount of grooming is advised. Of course a pair of nylon stockings can cover up a lot of things, however, if you want to deliver that unmistakable skin-on-skin orgasm that will have him painting the ceilings with his jizz, we advise you work to keep that skin as smooth, soft and callous-free as you can.

The reward for all your extra effort will be a man so enamored with your newfound sexual prowess that he will literally have little foot-shaped stars in his eyes (not literally of course).

Work to find positions and foot locations that work for both of you.

With enough practice and a little bit of flexibility-providing massage, feet can become like a second pair of hands. The more you work with them, the more you'll find dexterity and control. This can be an exhilarating exploration all on its own.

Keeping this in mind you can rest assured that there really is no part of the foot that you cannot use to give a great footjob. That said, everyone's body, legs, hips and feet are different and therefore each couple will find certain footparts and positions work best for them.

Overall, the soles of the feet are considered the easiest place to start. The important thing to keep in mind is to be patient and try different things. Enjoy the process of learning about each other in a completely new way and you'll find yourself getting better orgasms and you'll also avoid unnecessary awkwardness.

How to get started with minimum fuss.

You might be wondering: This seems complicated, how do I make it easy. Well, here is a basic footjob to start off with and begin the process of learning each others idiosyncrasies. The gal pushes the guy's cock against his belly with the sole of her foot.

With the sole, keep rubbing up and down the underside gently. As the girl starts to get a feel for it, she can begin to start including a little toe action, even slipping the penis itself between the toes. If you are having trouble with the rhythm, just try to keep the rhythm of a normal hand job in mind.

Some girls might worry about when to start experimenting with other parts of the foot. To be honest, this is a baseless concern. As the lady strives to keep her man hurtling toward a spectacular orgasm, whichever part the foot she is using will start to get tired (and, of course, the parts of the leg that are fueling the action).

At this point, she'll naturally start to use other parts, such as her heels, to keep things going. A good way to incorporate the heels is to get him to lie flat on his back and open his legs wide. Then the girl gets down on all four and kneels between his legs, facing away. This way, she can use the heels from a comfortable position and he gets the sight of her constantly moving ass to help him cum!

female leg tidying up laces of the shoe
Foot massage is a highly under-rated form of foreplay.

Now: Get those socks off and get rubbing

If feet are what he is into, then this is bound to be the start of an entirely new chapter of your sexual adventure. Letting each other in on your deepest and most secret sexual fantasy is a great way for long term couples or even casual sexual partners to deepen trust and create a kind of openness that leads to fulfilling sex and earth shattering orgasms. So, what are you waiting for!

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